Scenes of Summer

I present here a photo bomb of our summer.  I do it because the memory of summer is already slipping from me, or perhaps due to the discomforts of early pregnancy, I was never fully present as it was happening.  

Above is an evening scene at the lake around the corner.  When the nights were too muggy to bear I'd call out, "get your suits on and hop in the car, don't worry about shoes - just hop in the car".  Of course there was no delay in their response.  And it was always a treat when Paul ditched the desk and joined us, it eased the strain of me squinting into the sun counting heads.

Other water recreation happened right in our backyard at the pond.     Uncle Dave and his kids joined us for a day of fishing and with a tub of worms they caught several blue gill and a few bass.  

  

Aside from recreation there was the constant of staying on top of work that must be finished before winter.  Splitting and stacking wood was the backdrop of most of our free time in July.  It was how we celebrated the 4th. 

Paul worked hard this summer for sure, and so did the hammock.

Somewhere in July I declared it was so much more fun to work in the swoosh of a pioneer skirt.  I love this farm skirt and got a lot of wear out of it until the buttons finally said "no".

The kids and I went a little wild when an neighbor invited us to collect peacock feathers.  We came home with a basket load and searched through all kinds of amazing peacock feather crafts on Pinterest. We settled on hair pieces.  The girls wore their to church with confidence and we made a few for our favorite friends.

Another amazing craft event I failed to blog about was an indigo dying party hosted by an artistic and experienced farm lady.  Maryanna joined me and we experimented with different folding techniques and tying patterns.  I wish I could tell you the outcome of them but the truth is they are still sitting in a pile waiting for their vinegar soak. The process of dying is always a thrill. 

William, Maryanna and James have committed to weekly riding lessons.  James' interest surprised me the most and there is no denying the sheer joy on his face from the experience.  He says, "riding a horse makes me feel so alive".  William on the other hand exercises his concentration while riding, he does not like to go too fast but enjoys the connection he feels with the horse.  As for Maryanna, she likes to go fast and is constantly begging to do outrageous tricks.  Riding lessons has been a safe place for her to learn boundaries.  Of course all three of them are begging to bring home a horse.

Peter does not have interest in riding, he says he'd prefer a donkey and wagon instead.  He's kept his hands constantly busy knitting this summer.

 

The younger ones have made crafts out of pretty much anything they could find, boxes, duck tape, sticks, string, wrappers, leaves, flowers, fabric......  Along the way they also have made lots of messes and were constant in amusing me with their creativity, instruments, cameras, masks, boats, hats, robots, weapons, knight armor...... 

Whenever out on country roads we'd peel our eyes for garage sales, yard sales, estate sales or better than anything else Barn Sales! The girls scored these vintage hats at one and tried to convince me to buy a collection of salt and pepper shakers to go with them. 

Their school desks have served as the summer hand sewing station.  While quietly occupied I'd sneak a nap on the couch near by and loved waking up to a Calico Critter or My Little Pony fashion show.
  

We enjoyed a visit from my parents and did the trip to Gee Farms for ice cream with them. 

Cousins Anna and Julia spent a few days with us as well.  They loved hanging out with the animals and climbing trees.

Then somewhere at the peak of my most miserable pregnancy days was the community event that I had planned and organized months earlier.  Along with a few other homeschool moms we hosted a lecture and book signing with author Christopher Shein.  He had much to share and inspired us with his knowledge of permaculture and practical gardening.  I admit though I was sipping fizzy water the whole time, pacing to and from the bathroom wishing I was not there (especially when we arrived at the discussion of worm bins).  Luckily my sister in law Eva was there to share my secret and helped me pull myself together.  That and a few other minor miracles made it a night worth having.  I recommend his book to anyone curious about Permaculture. 

  

Paul's travel schedule was intense this summer and I was unable to prepare the normal meals for our family.  At one point I ordered a 15 lb bag of organic corn flakes and left them out on the counter.  After 6 straight meals of it, it was almost gone and the kids had me swear never to offer it again for at least a year. 

In those couple of days Charlie learned how to serve himself.  He loved the independence!

There was a lot of excitement when our tiny library announced a Lego building contest.  They all set to it, the younger kids teamed up and the older kids teamed up.  William could hardly sleep after the submission, he couldn't wait to hear the results.

Both teams won! It turns out there were only 4 entries and 4 prizes.  William is showing off his $20 gift card to the Toy House and the girls got a small Lego set to share.

On our laziest and rainiest of days we watched through the whole Harry Potter series, what's been produced of the Chronicles of Narnia and then settled into the hypnotic rhythm of our favorite audio books.

But mostly this is what I remember of the summer.  The couch, and glad one the kids utilized Instagram to catch a great shot of it.

Paul is more of a realist when he snaps photos.  The one below is the least flattering but probably the most true of my summer.  Laying around under a fan, getting lost in obscure BBC and Korean films, sipping lemon water and wishing there was someone who could come take over my life for a while.  I asked Paul if this was unusual of me but he just laughed at how easy it is that I forget the memory of first trimester misery.  He reminded me of the time when I was just a few weeks into my first pregnancy and broke down in tears at the grocery store, that and many more episodes over the years of bearing children.   

I am so happy to report that I'm finally easing out of the fatigue and nausea.  I am also grateful for all the good times and sweet little smiles and hugs that helped me move through it.  On an evening much like what is captured here Henry said to me before heading to bed, "Mommy, if you need anything in the night, if you need any water or a hug you can come wake me up".  So this is summer to remember, not because the challenge of it, but because it was lived, enjoyed and endured one day at a time.