So far no bites on our house - it will sell when it sells. So I've decided it's time for me to stop tip toeing around and just live like I normally would. Which means completing what we call "the big switch".
This is an event that takes place twice a year, once in the Fall and once in the Spring. It is a time we celebrate both changing seasons and growing children. It is time for me to economize and reorganize all that is stored in our closets. The whole process takes about 3 days to complete.
To begin with, I focus on one child at a time and pull out everything that they already have (which means it should all be washed) and their own personal "shopping bin". The shopping bin is a concept I came up with after much frustration in trying to store hand-me-downs according to size and season - that was too many bins and too much work. Now each child has one very large bin full of items handed down from siblings and cousins as well as things picked up at garage sales and clearance racks. When they are in need of something new we "shop" the bin before shopping anywhere else. So during the few days "the big switch" takes place there are clothes, bins and piles everywhere!
It is important to have good bribes on hand, especially for boys, otherwise the simple act of trying on clothes will set you back several hours. I'm not a big candy gal but I'd be sure to slip them a few M&M's or chocolate chips just to keep the process going. Another help is some sort of inventory or shopping list like this one that Marie Ricks has created.
I continue by going through the old season's clothes making piles labeled: still good for this season, hand-me-down, good enough to donate, and totally worn out/trash. The hand-me-downs go immediately in the younger sibling's bin and then its time to try on what has been saved especially for them in their own "shopping bin". We make a pile of what works and they are willing to wear (even boys have opinions about clothes). Then we lay all the items out and match them up into outfits as pictured above. I make note of where there may be missing pieces and make a sort of "grocery list" for clothes. The outfits are then rolled into pillows as also shown above.
Rolling the outfits into pillows is a huge time saver for dressing Clara and Henry and is also a good way to keep dressing simple for William and Peter. James and Maryanna on the other hand prefer their clothes unrolled - they demand more freedom in their dressing. For these two it is especially important that #1 the clothes fit well and #2 they all coordinate. Otherwise........well, remember this and this?
Now I don't know what the magic number is for how many outfits are needed. It depends on the individual but we are averaging 10 weekday outfits and 3 church outfits per child. This system has really kept my shopping in check and also gives me an opportunity to focus on sewing only what we really need. Still, I wish I could simplify it more as I feel we have excessive amounts of clothes but maybe that's just me thinking after a 6 load laundry day.
But more than anything, I still can't believe how fast my babies are growing. Nostalgia is sure to slow me down a bit as I pull out and put away clothes that my biggest of babies once wore. My eyes tear up as I fold their old grubby T-shirts and to make it worse, I let this song run through my head from Charlotte's web. So there you have it Mary, this post was especially for you. Who knew clothes could make us think so hard, may we someday come to balance our practical, economical, stylish, and sentimental selves.
How very special are we
For just a moment to be
Part of life’s eternal rhyme
How very special are we
To have on our family tree
Mother Earth and Father Time
He turns the seasons around
And so she changes her gown
But they always look in their prime
They go on dancing their dance
Of every lasting romance
Mother Earth and Father Time
The summer larks return to sing
Oh what a gift they give
Then autumn days grow short and cold
Oh what a joy to live
How very special are we
For just a moment to be
Part of life’s eternal rhyme
How very special are we
To have on our family tree
Mother Earth and Father Time


We just did the big switch too, but with only three, I can accomplish it in a day. Phew.
ReplyDeleteThe only problem is that with CA weather, we have to keep summer clothes out a little longer (even though they are ever-so-slightly-too small). They do grow up fast, don't they?
We need to do the big switch too. I like how you pair them all into outfits. We haven't done that just picked out shirts and pants but I can definitely see the wisdom in making sure there's something to match!
ReplyDeleteGoing through the kids' clothes and hand-me-downs always makes me feel overwhelmed, but it feels so great once it's done. I like some of your ideas and I'm excited to try them out (we have to go through our clothes in the next week or two).
ReplyDeleteI also love that song from Charlotte's Web--it gets me every time.
You're so organized. Your blog is like a "how-to" for big families. I like it.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Al. I did our big switch a few weeks ago. Only having 1 girl makes the girl switch easy and fun. Most out-grown clothes go to cousins.
ReplyDeleteI had a more difficult time with the boy clothes - because I have three now and it is hard to know what will fit Andrew and Anthony since they are almost the same size.
You forgot to mention the pre-D.I. step: clothes for Joseph, Andrew, Phillip, Anthony, etc. Thanks so much!
Al--whats your opinion on saving Natalie's clothes for Caroline? They are 4 1/2 years apart. Do you think it is worth saving clothes when styles change so much for the teenagers?
ReplyDeleteI tried putting Joseph's outfits in bundles, but he ended up unraveling them all looking for his favorite batman tshirt. He definitely has opinions what he wants to wear. I like your idea of "shopping" in your storage bins first for clothes.
You are BRILLIANT. I'm going to implement this... I organize by size but I love the idea of rolling the outfits and only allowing a certain amount each season. Love it!
ReplyDeleteI'm always looking for good organization tips, especially with storing the kids clothes. Thanks for sharing, I'm going to do our switch in the coming week or so and this will help!
ReplyDeleteEmily -
ReplyDeleteFor the girls I would save the basics that still have good wear jeans, sweaters, skirts. If it is really trendy stuff maybe you could do minor size adjustments and pass directly down.
For Joseph if all he wants is his favorite T's then roll the outfits with the T's on the outside.
Here is my third attempt to comment. I keep getting interrupted and then when I get back to the computer the comment I had written is gone.
ReplyDeleteI am almost finished with the switch here. Jerome is fighting the long pants, so I still have his shorts out. I think he will keep going until the first snow.
Quinn has three babies worth of clothes. Hand me downs from Jerome and Kai, plus all the cute hand me down clothes my friend gave him.
I like the chart you linked, but you told me to write up a chart just like that back when we were in Philly. Do you remember when you went through my closet and did the switch for me? And then you helped me shop for things I was missing? There are some pieces I still get compliments on from that shopping trip. it has been six years!
I love your blog header - so sweet!
ReplyDeleteFor some reason I have never thought to sort by outfit. Thanks for the tips.
I so wish I could do the big switch, but mine is just put into boxes for later in hopes that we will still use it for the sibling in like 5 years. That is what you get when having boy, girl, boy, girl. And I get sad watching my kids grow up all the time. It is so strange how quickly it goes by.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I like how you narrated this complicated process. I like the shopping box idea but I don't have than many bigger clothes for David. It is hard though to anticipate what size your kids will be in a given season. I feel like filling out that inventory for myself first. I rolled David's clothes one summer and it worked really well. At the end of the summer, I left his wardrobe in Utah for the cousin hand-me-downs. I don't save his clothes. I'm undecided what to do about Kate's clothes. With airlines limiting bags, it will be more challenging to be in the circle of cousin hand-me-downs.
ReplyDeletePS. I like the Charlotte's web poem. CARPE DIEM!
ReplyDeleteAlison! I am so glad I found your blog! You are an awesome mother for your family - and they are so amazing. Thanks for sharing your lives and ideas - you are inspiring.
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